Let Memories Pass Away

I don’t often do this, but in this “splendid” Covid isolation I don’t have anyone to talk this out with so I’m going to pour it out on the page. Typical writer, right? So on Wednesday evening a lovely family came and took away the sort-of-antique-beds that were in the casita. The bed I had in Los Angeles will be coming back to New Mexico and I decided a queen with a really good Tempur-Pedic mattress was a better choice for any guests I might have once the plague...

Grief, Rage & Sorrow

“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”― Edmund Burke  We are where we are — 76,740 dead from Covid-19 — because of the cowardice of putatively good men, brave men, intelligent men, patriotic men. Where is Rex Tillerson who reputedly called Trump a “fucking moron”? You have anything to say? Where is General Mattis who said Trump had the understanding of “a fifth- or sixth-grader,”, and ultimately resigned, but now refuses to speak out about what he has...

Those Were the Days, My Friend We Thought They’d Never End

Personal anecdote to indicate just how badly Trump & his administration botched the response to Covid 19. I’m a news junkie, I read the Post, the Times, Guardian, I watch the news, probably too much. I was aware of the outbreak of a new virus in China, but erroneously thought it was a flu. I know not to listen to a damn thing Trump says, but I (wrongly) assumed that the CDC or NIH would give us accurate information. What I missed was that Trump had throttled them. So I went about my...

Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior in the Digital Age — Chapter One: Social Media Etiquette in Election Years

I get it. Many of us are terrified that we’re witnessing the final days of the American experiment. We fear another four years of Donald Trump will result in the end of the Republic and the slide into autocracy… or worse. So those of us who frequent the inter-webs, and play around with social media have set aside the cute cat videos, and kids doing adorable things, and are talking politics. A lot. But we’re not doing it very well. Or at least a subset of us aren’t. Because this feels like the...

The Rise of Skywalker

Okay, there are going to be SPOILERS so please don’t read this if you haven’t seen the film, and SPOILERS make you nuts. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. SPOILERS. ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************** Any of you...

The Wrap Up

So everyone made it safely to the house. Cordelia Willis gave me one of her bound books of their trip this past summer. Cordelia is a wonderful photographer. George and Parris gave me a darling Dr. Who purse. Considering I was just texting with a friend about whether he was the Doctor and I the Companion or vice versa it felt very apt. I overcooked the stuffing, and burned rather than toasted the top because I forgot about it because the damn bird would not get done! I blamed the turkey (and I...